A little too perfect? Is she really happy? |
Have you said yes to too many requests? Have you set the bar too high in your personal life with regard to chores? What will happen if everything is a little less perfect? Nothing.
If someone complains that it isn't done "right," let them take it on themselves.
If you have guests coming, let them take you - or not - as you are, not as you wish you were. If they don't love and accept the real you...what have you actually lost? Very little.
It's your own approval that you need. What is standing in the way of that? Old voices? Older stories of what it takes to be good enough? Let them all go, and choose your own carefully selected new ones.
This is the path to owning your own life, and freedom from the tyranny of external demands from dubious sources. Declare your independence now, and embrace the things that really mean something to you, and the things you really need and want to do.
We are waving a flag for you. It's your new standard. Take it, and form your new country.
We love and bless you this day.
Namaste.
So true! Thanks for the wonderful post.
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