Lesson Two goes like this: You have to allow others to proceed at their own pace. Extend a helping hand, yes. They can grasp it if they so choose, and propel themselves forward.
That is where you draw the line. They must move themselves forward by their own choice, or not. Each of these choices is valid, and each choice is right if the person involved so chooses it. They get to make their own way home to Oneness, in their own way and their own time.
What you can offer them is a doorway to an alternative path. Only they can decide if it is the right fit for who they are, and for what they are wanting, currently.
We want to make this very clear: You can offer your hand and a golden opportunity. This is good and appropriate. You go too far if you try to push, pull, or otherwise maneuver then into a place or direction that they do not desire at this moment.
Know that whatever they choose is the right choice, and the honorable one, for each soul carries its own template and compass for success.
Offer, love, and know their ultimate Perfection. And then, and this is most important, let go. No matter how much you love them and want what you think is best for them, let go and let them make their own way forward.
They will get there, and there is every chance that they will beat you! In other words, it is not for you to judge this, nor your relative places on the Path. Keep your focus on your own self, your path, your progress, and most importantly, on your sweet relationship with the Divine.
This concludes Lesson Two.
Namaste.
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